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She gave me her version of what had happened
I'll let you have this back next week. "That's all right, there's no (great) hurry/
One person has died after the pilot of a light aircraft was forced to make a crash/
The letter was sent on Monday from Manchester and arrived in London the very same/
If you need a reference, please call my superior on the following number: 0181/
enough is enough

找了一个教育专家朋友,学习了一晚上孩子的教育,理解了内驱和外驱。理解了这些也就知道中国那么难获诺贝尔奖了,核心还是我们的环境无法出现太多内驱力为主的人,或者说人没有使命感,要么逐利,要么媚外(外驱)。

外在评价陷阱:自我价值感低的人,在心理上特别依赖来自外部的正面评价,因此会过分关注他人的回应。我们不必完全忽视他人,却也无须疯狂地追求他们的认可,自己的亲身体验,无论如何他人都无法贴近那一瞬间的幸福或痛苦,干脆将有些事情留给自己,学着自得其乐吧

失控的愤怒并非强硬,而是软弱,它会毁掉你对目标的专注,让你分心。